who's who....do you really want to know?

for now i'm not using real names so i figured i would used a code to talk about family and friends. so here's the code:

hub: my husband of 3 1/2 years, we haven't been married long but have been together 10 years ( i know i can't believe it either) he's one of the good guys even if it doesn't seem like i know that. i'm very blessed to have met this man.

boo: my 10 yr old daughter who changed, literally, my life. it would have turned out very different if she had not chosen me to be her mother.

binks: my 6 year old son who made my life and our family complete.

ss: my 11 year old step-son who lives with his adopted mother but we all have a very open relationship together- adopted mother, biological mom and boyfriend and us. it's an amazing situation and i am very grateful for it.

mom: my rock, she made me who i am today, without her, i don't know how i would've survived but i can only love her from my heart. she is my angel looking after me and my bro. life will never be the same without her in it.

dad: the first man i ever loved who taught me dance on his toes and to laugh at life. he is always there for me when i truly need him.

sd: my step-dad who has always loved me even when i didn't deserve to be. more like one of my friends than a dad.

sm1: my dad's first second wife

sm2: my dad's second second wife, his partner now.

bro: my 'real' brother... my mom and dad's. he's my l'il bro who i can't help but try and mother. i love him more than he will probably ever know. without him i would feel lost.

mil: my mother-in-law whom i love and probably the closest i will ever have for a mom again. makes me very thankful to have married into her family.

fil: father-in-law who has the same sense of humor i do which alot people don't get. we are very sarcastic to each other which is awesome. again am very grateful for.

sis: my bro's partner, she's awesome. knowing her helped opened my whole way of thinking and being. the closest i ever had to a sister.

bf: best friend(as junior high that is :o) ) have known each other since we were 8. my other sister.

bfh: best friend's hub...probably my closest 'guy friend'. my intellectual match (ok, he's above me.

okay i think i'm done for now. for those of you not included please don't take it personal, i love you all...there's just sooo many great people in my life, i can't write about you all right now :o)